"In the last few years, my life was headed in the wrong direction. I got into trouble, lost my apartment and went to jail. I was alone, very pregnant, and living in a rehabilitation center. Once I had my baby, I would have nowhere to go. The Housing Partnership told my rehabilitation counselor to call New Generation.

In October of 2006, I moved into New Generation, just two days after my son, Elijah, was born. I hadn’t been in a homeless shelter before, and I was surprised that the home was so nice and clean. I felt so welcome here. I was treated with respect, and I was at ease. The staff had a single room ready for me, gave me diapers and baby necessities, and a basinet for Elijah. I was so thankful that we both had a bed to sleep in.

My mother is taking care of my first child, Kylee, who is now 3, and I visit them as often as possible. When I arrived, I was so grateful to be here, even though I was far away from everyone I knew. I think the rules and responsibilities are reasonable. The chores are divided among residents. I have learned to cook a lot of new meals; the daystaff has shown me new recipes. I found work close by. Before I got my car, the staff drove me to my housing and doctor’s appointments, to human services, and to my job.

I started working about 30 hours a week, and I was able to put Elijah in childcare right on site. Next Generation staff has been so great for Elijah. I really trust them and they are all so amazing with the children. I met with Toni (Executive Director) and created goals to get housing, counseling, start working, and go to college. I got a car, and then I was more flexible with work. I started college classes this fall. I want to become a drug and alcohol counselor. This year I have taken a financial fitness course, and am a more self-sufficient adult, managing my time and money. I want a house and will soon have an IDA account to save for a down-payment. Once I have an Associates degree, I will get a Bachelor’s degree in Counseling. 

From being here, and taking action towards my goals, my self worth has increased. I feel like I am heading down the right path and will be able to provide for my children. A large part of the New Gen program is parenting education, about a mother and child’s health and safety. Every resident meets with Joan Ouellette who is a passionate teacher and cares about every girl who comes through here. I have made friends with some girls who have moved on and we keep in touch. New Gen has given me a permanent solution. My support system has grown here; I have two counselors, and I am closer with my family now. Other agencies have helped along the way too. Toni connects the residents to healthcare, housing, and counseling services. 

This week I am moving into my own apartment, close to work and school. Eventually, I will complete my degree, have Elijah and Kylee both living with me, and maintain my counseling and friendships with New Gen staff. I want to get closer to owning a house and having a career, while I continue to lead a clean, sober, successful life every day. It's not fun being homeless; this life is much better. I believe in second chances. New Gen gave me that opportunity to live an honest, healthy lifestyle with my children. This is a fulfilling life and I am so grateful for where I am today." - Alexis, 2007 resident

The story you just read is true in every detail except for the names. When we, as a staff, ask ourselves the question whether or not we make a difference, we are heartened by the experience of Alexis and Elijah.